Got this for my 21st and don't regret it in the slightest - will hopefully last me a lifetime. I feel it is quite delicate, but it's also super detailed and intricate, the fabric is nice and soft etc. but I still have confidence in it's longevity. Obviously want to use this at as many festivals as possible. What am I saying? imma wear it to the grocery store and back. Possibly kinda feminine, but if you can totally own it as a guy (especially if you're shredded I suppose).